Desi families are well connected with each other. From a tiny matter to the biggest decision everyone is involved. Privacy is unknown to the Desi families and households. As said it is the business of each of the family members to track the business of others. Being nosy means you care for each other.
I grew up in a desi family.
Everyone is in everyone else's business all the time. #desiproblems
— Desi Problems (@desiproblem) March 15, 2019
Some of the matters usually need privacy, but no how dare you talk of privacy. Hum say Kya chuppa hua hai, hum tou tmhary maan baap hain. The rants can go on and on. They would never let you breathe and let you stay alone.
Desi Family: pic.twitter.com/m6Zf5UXBOQ
— Lozer (@HarisSajidh) June 8, 2020
Some of the privacy interferences are as:
You don’t have your own room
In a desi household, you cannot have your own room until you are 14, or 15. Then it won’t still be not your own but a shared one with your
If you are in the washroom for more than 5 minutes, you are in trouble. They want all the details of the matters in the washroom.
Privacy in desi family pic.twitter.com/0qwLmL3fyd
— علی رضا↯(nushay bday) (@Ali_is_kayoot) January 1, 2021
I just realized living in a desi family there is no privacy for you Like if you spend more than 10 minutes in the washroom,
Someone knocks the door and asks
"Itni dair se kya kar rahay ho?"
— Dawar (@Dawar_Tweets) March 16, 2020
Locking the room
The moment you lock the door, there is havoc in the house. Everyone remembers that they have a task in that room. You have to be answerable for this act of transgression.
Not a meme but*
Privacy in every desi family 💔 pic.twitter.com/uk8AgIKPqG
— DRAMA QUEEN❣️ (@YourMishall) July 27, 2020
Checking your drawers and wardrobe
Your drawers are regularly checked maybe they can find a cigarette butt or something suspicious. In the wardrobe, they are trying to find the portal to another world.
I need privacy
Desi family: pic.twitter.com/uoqrAgXhSJ
— BABAR (@Babar__says) August 10, 2018
Checking the phone
When you are texting, they will stand on your head to find out who you are texting. If you are on a phone call, they will make sure to keep an eye on you.
Privacy in desi family pic.twitter.com/tESUT98CpR
— ShahZaib. (@TheKarachiBoy) May 23, 2021
Eavesdropping when your friends are over
When your friends are over at your place. Whatever you are talking about, they will eavesdrop or send a sibling to have the updates.
Desi Family and privacy are completely two different things: pic.twitter.com/2kaNgAaZX9
— Not Shafqat (@NotherAhmad5) May 2, 2021
So yes, Desi family and Privacy. Nah Nah!!!